I don’t screw up too often but when I do…I sure get myself in some trouble.
At the beginning of the month, I had an appointment with this post adoption counselor I have been seeing. It is a great place to unload to an impartial person.
I messed up and didn’t write down the appointment in my book. I recieved a call from the therapist when I didn’t show and we re-scheduled for this past Wednesday.
Can you guess what I did again? I was a no show … I did call and leave a message for her that I really had nothing to talk about and I would be in touch. I recieved a call back and she was pretty steamed (in a nice way)that I blew her off twice. I completely understand her point of view since these appointments are her income. I tied up two hours of her time and I feel terrible.
She left me a message that she would send me a bill for the two hours and let me decide what and if I wanted to pay. I will send her a check for the full amount immediately.
It was kind of funny that at the end of her “firmly worded” message, she added that she was happy things were going well and her door was always open if I need any assistance in the future. Ouch! I am a bad person.
On another note, I am headed to my first paternal family beach day at the end of the month! This annual trip is open to any family members who aren’t estranged, dead, incarcerated or relinquished. Of course, if you have been relinquished and you manage to find your way back, you are encouraged to attend!
Seriously, I am very excited to see my paternal uncle and aunt again. I will meet their three children and various offspring so it should be a great day.
7 responses so far ↓
suz // July 20, 2007 at 1:58 pm |
i hope you have a wonderful visit.
Wraith // July 20, 2007 at 2:59 pm |
I’ve done that before and after a subtle bit of guilt trip I make sure I write it down and even confirm it usually via email. It’s kind of weird when you think, these strangers we go to know a lot about the human condition and could use their powers for good or evil. Don’t mess with the income.
Possum // July 21, 2007 at 2:45 am |
Sounds like an exciting visit Dan.
I hope it’s a great one.
Poss. xxx
elizabeth // July 22, 2007 at 2:12 am |
I hope you have a great visit Dan.
joyceregina // July 23, 2007 at 8:30 pm |
Hi Dan: Sounds good to me. Have a good time and dont forget the sunscreen.
alex // July 24, 2007 at 7:11 am |
You’re a good man, Dan, sending the money to that counseller.
My brother is a psychotherapist, with his own practice, and I remember him getting very irate when there were serial ‘no show’ offenders. Once or twice is ok, but more than that is pushing it!
The beach bonanza sounds great. I am glad that you are included in the invitation criteria!! (you make me laugh) Have a great time and look forward to the next edition!
x
craighickman // July 27, 2007 at 5:29 pm |
Have fun!