I was going through some old files and I found a copy of the original contact letter I was asked to write by the search and reunion counselor. She also asked me to include several childhood pictures of myself in a separate sealed envelope. It is still interesting to read it after almost two years of reunion and I am sharing it for anyone who may be pondering what to write .
December 4, 2005
While I am sure this letter may be upsetting and overwhelming, I am writing to you to let you know that I am alive, healthy and well.
I have thought of you often over the years and sincerely hope that you are happy and well. I also want you to know that I fully understand that your decision was an extremely difficult one but you made the right choice and there is no reason for you to have any guilt, concern or regret.
It has taken me sometime to get to this point but I am seeking any medical background and information that you would be able to provide. At this stage in my life, I am also very interested in learning about my biological ties and who you are. I would be willing to accept as little or as much information as you are willing to share.
Enclosed are some photographs for you and I hope that you enjoy them. The first two pictures are of me as an infant, the third picture is at around age two and the last is of me at age six waiting for the bus on my first day of school.
I also want you to know that if you should decide that you want to meet me, I am open and ready to meet you. If you feel it is something you are not ready for at this point, I will be disappointed but I would completely understand. If meeting is something you have no interest in pursuing at all, I promise to respect your privacy.
I understand that hearing from me after all these years is unsettling and I apologize if this upsets you. That is not my intent at all. I hope to hear from you but if not, I will completely respect your decision.
I wish you the best and hope this letter brings you some sense of comfort.
Sincerely,
